|Tips#1: Read Together Every Day|
|Read to your child every day. Make this a warm and loving time when the two of you can cuddle close together. Bedtime is an especially great time for reading together.|
|Tips#2: Give Everything A Name|
|You can build comprehension skills early, even with the littlest child. Play games that involve naming or pointing to objects. Say things like, "Where's your nose?" and then, "Where's Mommy's nose?" Or touch your child's nose and say, "What's this?"|
Now many parents have a common affliction that children lack of self-confidence, the infant stage is an important period of the formation of confidence. The self-confidence is a prerequisite for children's success. It is difficult to imagine a person who lacks confidence can truly make what things. For a child who lack of confidence and is full of self-esteem, there will comes the problem when he or she encounter a little difficulty or setback even though he or she is very smart and responsive.
Confidence can make children are not afraid of difficulties, try to actively and strive to enterprising to obtain more knowledge and experience. Encourage and praise is very beneficial to enhance children's self-confidence. If you want to cultivate children's self-confidence can obtain from the following aspects:
First, you need to appreciate the child's progress and often say “you are great”
For example, when you want to make the children at the age of 4 wear their own clothes, don't say: “you put your clothes now, i will buy ice cream for you in the afternoon.” But simply said, “I think you have grown up, you can put on it.” In this prompt, he tried to put on, it will feel really has grown up, the children will efforts to consolidate this feeling every day which greatly increased self-confidence.
The evaluation of adult psychological confidence is crucial for children. In early childhood, if an adult trust, respect child, and often said to him, “you are great”, children will see their own strengths, and certainly their progress that he think himself is really great. On the contrary, achildren often suffer negative, contempt, suspicion by adults and often heard the evaluation of “You're a fool,” the children will deny themselves and doubt their ability to produce a sense of inferiority. Therefore, adults must pay attention to their evaluation of the child and proud for the child's strengths, not regret the child's weaknesses. Parents should give priority to with positive encouragement to find the bright spot, don't blindly take your children compared with the other children, but to take the children's past and present comparison, let the children know that their grown up, progress, resulting in the corresponding confidence.
|Tips#3: Say How Much You Enjoy Reading Together|
|Tell your child how much you enjoy reading with him or her. Look forward to this time you spend together. Talk about "story time" as the favorite part of your day.|
|Tips#4: Be Interactive|
|Engage your child so he or she will actively listen to a story. Discuss what's happening, point out things on the page, and answer your child's questions. Ask questions of your own and listen to your child's responses.|
Second, create opportunities to cultivate children's self-confidence in practice
You give him something he can complete the task, such as swing bowl, rice bowl, take glasses to grandpa and to the mailbox to get the newspaper and so on. If children do these, you will praise her. Sometimes, it also make children do some of the more difficult things, such as washing handkerchiefs, shoeshine, sorting toys shelves to set up her or him confidence. Get up in the morning and at night to make him wear his own clothes to exercise independence. It is necessary to know self-confidence and independence from the start bit by bit, not abstract. Parents should correctly understand the child's weaknesses and strengths, to create a good opportunity and condition to allow children to try and find. when children are achieved, timely praise and fully affirmed progress in order to make the children to experience the joy of success.
Third, with the encouragement of the ways to nurture children's self-confidence
Encouragement is the most important aspect of fostering children, every child needs to be encouraged constantly, as plants need sunlight and rain. But we often look down on the child's encouragement, often forget to encourage. Many people mistakenly think that the children need is education, continuous education, and education is more indoctrination and training.
When the child tried to do a thing without success, we should avoid using language and action to prove to him that his failure. We should separate the things and people, failed to do one thing doesn't mean that the child is incompetent, because he has not mastered the skills. Once he mastered the skills to be able to do things well. If we take the attitude of the accused, the child's self-confidence will be harmed, this time is not as simple as skills. To adults, we ourselves can not be discouraged or lose confidence first.
To encourage the children, the most important is the following: First, don't satire him with varying degrees of combat; Second, don't commend him excessively to avoid pride emotions. When we educate our children must take into account this point. Don't make the children lose confidence in themself. At the same time, we should know how to encourage children's self-confidence.
Fourth, let the children gain confidence from the joy of success
The condition of cultivating children's self-confidence is to let the children to obtain the experience of success, however, too much experience of failure often make children for their ability to generate suspicion. Therefore, teachers, parents should be based on the characteristics of the child development and individual differences, proposed tasks and requirements appropriate to their level, to establish an appropriate goal to make it through the efforts to complete. They also need to learn one thing successfully to gain confidence, in addition, for the lack of self-confidence of children should be more concerned. As for the timid child, to make them as some work at home or in class, in the process of completing the task to cultivate bold and confident. To create a democratic, harmonious family atmosphere like human survival sunshine, air, every hour and moment can affect the child's physical and mental health and mental development.
|Tips#5: Read It Again And Again And Again|
|Your child will probably want to hear a favorite story over and over. Go ahead and read the same book for the 100th time! Research suggests that repeated readings help children develop language skills.|
|Tips#6: Talk About Writing, Too|
|Draw your child's attention to the way writing works. When looking at a book together, point out how we read from left to right and how words are separated by spaces.|